Kids are kids. Some of them misbehave. In another life, I taught in both private and public schools. I taught six classes a day at the public school in WV, with over 160 kids. I have had some experience with misbehavior. I tell my kids when they act up that they are out of their league. The kids are all warned at the beginning of the year of the consequences for misbehavior. Here are some tips.
1. Warn the child to stop. Sometimes I issue a general warning. Literally. If a couple teens are starting to chatter or poke, or whatever, I just announce, ‘Warning!’ Sometimes, you just say the kiddo’s name. I just say, Fred, and stare daggers at him for a minute.
2. Next consequences for minor offenses. The rules are clear. If a child takes off their safety glasses during lab, the first consequence is he or she must clean up all of the lab stations. Why? I want them to be safe. Cleaning is a strong deterrent. My kids often leave class and go home wearing their safety glasses; they hate cleaning that much.
3. The consequences are tiered. Minor offenses, such as annoying your classmates by lifting the table repeatedly, earn minor consequences, such as a reprimand and a discussion with the parent. The child is reminded the next few classes not to repeat the behavior. A second offense initiates a longer discussion with his or her mom. At this point I recommend rescinding his or her electronic privileges for a week.
4. Greater offenses have greater consequences. I make it clear the teens may not pretend to stab a classmate with the scalpel. Someone always does. (They aren’t being serious or malicious, the kids just think it’s funny.) They were warned. I explain to mom that Fred must stay after class, usually the same day. Fred vacuums, mops, and wipes the stairs in the basement. If Fred gives me any lip, he may also clean the bathrooms. Last year, my basement was deep-cleaned several times by miscreants.
I keep track of which students owe me time cleaning. Their moms may have another lesson or appointment after class. I have a roster of chores: vacuuming, sharpening pencils (dozens), sorting kits, wiping tables, and chair, etc. My shelves of materials always need to be sorted. Keep a list. Do you have some cutting needed for a project? It doesn’t have to be class related. The kiddo can cut materials for religious Ed. If you meet at a church I’m sure the staff would appreciate some complementary board-washing or vacuuming.















































