Let me share several resources I use to teach electron configurations. Have you heard of Electron Configuration Battleship or Hog Hilton? Here is the slideshow I use to explain electron configurations.
Let me explain the slideshow because the first several slides are from the DC Metro, which I as an analogy for how electrons occupy orbitals and the General Rules for electron configurations.
#1. People try to sit as close to the door as possible. Electrons occupy the orbitals closest to the nucleus. The Aufbau Principal (See the General Rules.) applies to how electrons occupy orbitals according to increasing energy. I explain that the negative electrons are attracted to the positive protons in the nucleus.
#2. Two strangers sit as far apart as possible. Electrons are negative and repel each other. Two electrons in the same orbital have an opposite spin. You may see two strangers sitting on the same bench turned away from each other on the Metro. There is some tension.
#3. Each person sits in a different bench (with a maximum of two seats to a bench) until there is a rider in each bench. Only then, do strangers sit next to strangers. Each orbital holds two electrons. Electrons occupy each orbital one at a time until the sub level has at least one electron in each orbital. This is my explanation for Hund’s Rule (See General Rules.).
#4. The George Forman Exception Rule. Each person has a unit address, just as each electron has a unique address or electron configuration, including its spin. I point out that even two identical twins sharing a bedroom have two different addresses at the same house because they have different first names. I bring up George Forman who named all of this sons George Forman and his daughter Georgina. This is my intro to the Pauli-Exclusion Principle (Yup, see the Rules.) and the idea of four quantum numbers as an electron’s address.
Hey! The Metro analogy works for me. We live close enough to DC that most kids have been on the Metro. My own understanding of Quantum mechanics is limited. However, in Chemistry we need to understand how these rules for electron configurations govern how electrons occupy orbitals dancing around the nucleus. Let me explain the ‘hive’ slide. I tell the kids that the electrons dance around the nucleus much like bees dance around a hive. Bees dance to communicate. The electron orbitals are wave functions. Mainly, I explain that the orbitals are the likely regions electrons occupy and leave it there. We look at the shapes of these orbitals. Once I explain the rules, we try Hog Hilton and practice writing electron configurations.